Feel Honored and Blessed to be a Stay-at-Home Woman
Many wives and mothers will often tell me that when they stop working, they feel useless and guilty because they are not earning. But I always tell them how incorrect it is to think that way because they ARE earning.
It might not be literal money in hand, but they’re earning rewards from their ibadah of being a wife, mother, and homemaker, and they’re earning time that is way more valuable than money.
As a stay-at-home wife and mom myself, I may not have a big, fancy home or expensive furnishings and jewels, but I see so much barakah in my life, alhumdulillah.
I feel content with all we have and so appreciative that my husband is able to provide for us everything we need on his modest income, alhumdulillah.
Many people can’t believe how we’ve lived as a family of 8 all these years on one income, but I know it’s from Allah’s SWT barakah and by not being a materialistic family.
I wish more people relied on our Lord’s merciful barakah and let go of their constant need to earn money, money, money.
Yes, I do spend more time on frugal shopping and bargain hunting, but it’s enjoyable when you find a deal and your family is pleasantly surprised by your efforts. It’s comforting to give something used another life and not just throw stuff away but learn to fix things.
I love that I feel less stressed out, get to spend the most time with my children, am available to help my husband when he needs it, and study Islam often because my time is my own.
It’s priceless to be a stay-at-home woman, and I wish more sisters knew what a privilege it is and how rich you feel.
Mondays are not a drag to go back to work, your home is a cosy space to try new crafts and hobbies, make some side money to help your family or the poor, try new recipes, decorate your home at will, and even homeschool your kids.
It’s a rich life if you measure it by what really matters.
So don’t underestimate the sisters who stay at home by thinking they’re useless. Rather, we should guide more women to choose this path of wealth instead of guilt-tripping them.
Sure, one income families may have lower bank accounts but their hearts are content with less and their time has more barakah by avoiding the rat race.
You’ll know what I’m saying when you try it or if you’re already doing it.
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Salam, I’m Zakeeya!
I believe that making our homes a safe haven for our families, as well as being a wife and mother, brings us great blessings, contentment, and benefits to society as a whole. Since 2011, I've been dedicated to assisting Muslimas in finding tranquility in their roles, taking better care of themselves, and achieving inner peace. Our journey in this world is not an easy one, but I pray the tools and guidance I offer will help you face life's challenges with more gratitude and mindfulness. Join me as I share wifehood, motherhood, homemaking, and lifestyle solutions that make life more fulfilling for you as a woman! Read more about me here.
