How To Overcome Homeschooling Difficulties and Keep It Simple

One of the worst issues in homeschooling is the feeling of being overwhelmed and isolated as a parent, and the same can be said for the children who are homeschooled as well. This is what many struggle with and is the top complaint of most homeschooling families. When my kids and I start feeling this way, here's what I would do to overcome our homeschooling difficulties and keep things simple and manageable:

1. Take a Break - You're Human!

I take a break from homeschooling for a week or so and just enjoy my children with craft-type activities. We go on mini field trips or do nothing but read stories.

2. Your Curriculum is Not Carved in Stone

I tweak our curriculum and try new methods to educate my kids to make the work less boring for them and me. As long as my kids are learning the concept, it doesn't matter how they get from point A to point B.

3. The Basics are What Counts

I stick to the basics during very busy times in our lives. If my kids complete only some math, read a book, and are done with writing and spelling that day, that is adequate.

4. Join a Homeschool Group

I socialize with other homeschoolers and share ideas by going on playdates. Each time I learn something new, it renews my resolve to homeschool. It also makes us feel less isolated and helps me see that I am not the only one going through hard times.

5. Homeschool Online Blogs are Great

I read a lot of homeschool blogs to pick up different ideas and to feel supported when I can't meet other homeschoolers in person. You can also join an online group if you want more interaction because they're always sharing new ideas.

6. Don't Be the Teacher

I follow the philosophy of guiding my children towards becoming independent learners. I do not stand beside them, holding their hands, to learn. This can be exhausting if we act like their teacher instead of their facilitator.

7. Focus on What Matters

If I am behind in a subject or lesson, or if my child is weak in one area, I push everything aside for him or her. I focus for a few days on the one thing that my child needs to improve on. We tend to get overwhelmed when we focus on too much too soon.

8. Get a Parent Life

I ensure that I am able to maintain a hobby as a parent and set aside time for my hobbies. You cannot be a parent whose life revolves around your children. You need your individuality, and it's healthy to take breaks from your responsibility; it makes you a better parent!

9. Stop When Frustration Sets in

When I become frustrated or my kids are being extra whiny or troublesome, I close their workbooks and take them for a drive, or I play some Islamic songs for them, or we listen to the Quran and draw.

10. Getting Help is Key

Last but most importantly, I receive assistance! I know my limits, and I say I need help. I ask for help from my husband and friends. I also pay for help, whether it is a cleaning lady or buying food from outside. It is impossible to homeschool and keep doing what you normally did before you began homeschooling.

I pray these tips will help if you're having difficulty homeschooling. The main thing is to trust in Allah SWT and ask Him for help with your hard journey. I could not survive if I did not have the belief that Allah wants me to do this; it's what keeps me going more than any of the points above.

Salam, I’m Zakeeya!

I believe that making our homes a safe haven for our families, as well as being a wife and mother, brings us great blessings, contentment, and benefits to society as a whole. Since 2011, I've been dedicated to assisting Muslimas in finding tranquility in their roles, taking better care of themselves, and achieving inner peace. Our journey in this world is not an easy one, but I pray the tools and guidance I offer will help you face life's challenges with more gratitude and mindfulness. Join me as I share wifehood, motherhood, homemaking, and lifestyle solutions that make life more fulfilling for you as a woman! Read more about me here.